7.06.2010

a kate by any other name...

there is almost no question i should be asleep considering that i have to be at work in an unmentionable small amount of hours...yet here i sit...not seeming to care much






everyday before i go to work there are a few key items i grab on my way out the door to go along with my "official uniform"...only one of these do you actually need an idea about...but ill tell you all 3


my clicky pen, register/office key, and my nametag


and ill let you in on a little secret while im at it:
i dont have favorite customers...i try not to anyway...but it is alot easier to be nicer to someone if they take a little glimpse at my nametag and just subtly or even not so subtly slip the name into conversation (ie. can i have some bbq sauce kate?)


im not sure why exactly dan cathy would tell you our team wears name tags...but i have my own theories


there is something deep in our souls that value knowing who we are...that put worth upon having our names called




names dont have a ton of worth put on them, they get taken for granted...they get discarded because everyone has a name...there is at surface level nothing special about it




but quite the contrary


there is this unquenchable thirst in our beings to be seperated, to be called out, to be unique from every other person


know why?


because God made us that way


if Hed wanted there to be 2 kate mardis' He wouldve made 2 kate mardis'


this desire to be known, to be special, to be worth gets pursued by things like greed for more money, more power, more honor, more prestige...it often leads us to things that are so far from our Creator that they aren't recognizable any more


we feel like in order for our names to be special, for who we are to be unique, for what we have to offer to matter...that we must be better, or attempt to be better than those around us


thats so off though


if i go rip someones nametag off, it hasnt given the information on mine any more value...its just left one of my team members without a part of their uniform...and 99% of the time, it would make me look like a moron


but thats the world we live in...


go rip others tags off...go tear down your team members id's...and you will have more value


FALSE


our names do not have worth because of who we are, what we do, or how many of us exist...


our names have worth because of Who has called them


in other words...nothing we have control over


in the moments when someone chooses to be different and use my name...and i start being nicer to them...it has nothing to do with what i have done or who i have been...


it has everything to do with the choice that the guest made in taking time to look at me and call my name


it has everything to do with his intention and nothing to do with my actions


it has everything to do with His Intention and nothing to do with my actions




but there is more to this story right?


yep






this is the 2nd cfa i have worked at....and every store does the tag a little differently...

the chick fil a logo is always at the top

and right below that is your name...sometimes first, sometimes first and last

and then sometimes below that is something like where you are from, or how long youve worked there, or like the one i have currently, it says what your role is





the joke around our cfa is that you forget who you are if you dont have your nametag


and of course nobody believes that to be the case, nor has anyone (to my knowledge), forgotten their name as a result of a missing nametag


there are moments however, when i am having a particularly awful day, or when it seems like all i am doing is just serving chicken, or when i am at another place after work and have forgotten to take off my nametag and someone mentions how they feel about chick fil a because they see it on my tag....




and i look down, and there is comfort...there is a reminder...there is...a resolidification of who i am




not just who i am, but of whom/what i associate with...you know, who i work for, and what my role is...actually a reminder that i have a role at all is pretty excellent


but depending on where i go with cfa in the future, i may not have a tag that says my role...in fact, it may only say my name...and chick fil a






its easy to get caught up in a rush, or a bad day, or a few bad days, or heck, even a bad year...and forget that to the One to Whom it Matters...we still have a nametag


it may not always tell us what our role is, it may not tell much about us except that we have a name at all and the name of Who we're reppin




the important thing to grasp is that if we have a tag...we have a role...no matter what it looks like to those around us....




maybe you dont feel like your name has been called recently
maybe you feel like your name has been called to often
you might not feel like you have ever heard your name


much less that you have a role to go along with it




in these last few weeks, my name hasn't been called alot


there have been a few, or more, moments that i felt like i didnt have a nametag




im not completely through with this part of the journey...but im still walking


and im not alone


and if there is more than just me here...i must have a name




and if ive got a name


than ive got a nametag


and if ive got a nametag
then i know Who i'm workin for...and by golly


He isn't gonna be forgetting who i am anytime soon


let Him call you today


allow His grace to be the whisper that calms your heart in a place where the storms are raging


allow His pursuit of you to be the reason you can raise your head on a journey that seems to constantly be pulling you down


allow His faithfulness to be what draws your heart closest in a time when hurt has all but pushed you out


allow His words that you ARE adequate compel you to keep swimming in a race where the world has told you you'll lose


allow His freedom to be the voice that wins in a battle against the lies of your past


and more than anything...


allow His love to be the difference you hear in a world that has nothing for you




the battle you are fighting has already been Won














thanks God